MY KNOWLEDGE ON THREESOMES
O man, If I could only count the amount of threesomes I have had. I really for the life of me cannot come up with a number because it has happen so many times. Not only at work, but very often in my personal life too! Each threesome is different and means different things. Most of my threesomes happen after a night of drinking at clubs or house parties. Some of my threesomes happen out of pure board-em or just awkwardness of an uneven number so everyone gets to play. Sometimes I simply didn’t have a place to crash and didn’t want to drive so I would climb into bed with whoever. All of them are very different in many ways and that is cool, but one thing all of my threesomes have in common…. THEY ARE NOT WITH MY BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND AT THE TIME!!! Relationships are funny like that. I mean, ME, A porn chick and I have never had a threesome with my partner!
I wold lik to say that I wold be okay with that, but I know I would not be able to go through with it. As many times as I have had threesomes and many other sexcapades, I am confident I would not be able to share my man! In theory it sounds like fun, O.. Babe, lets have a threesome! HELL YEAH, but no! Threesomes in relationships just complicate things. It is very violating for both parties involved and adds confusion to the couple. I know this from first hand experience!!!! The other day a mutual porn chick asked me to come have a threesome with her and her boyfriend for his birthday. It was even her Idea!!!!!! we met and had some drinks first just to get everyone aquatinted and more comfortable together. When we headed to the room we were all cool all the way up to the point we were all naked together. The moment it was time for the boyfriend to get some action things went all bad very quickly! It is one thing to watch your lover getting a blow job from someone, but to see them getting fucked or fucking someone else you lose a little bit of your connection. That is exactly what happen that night. She got up and had me leave half way through and never return. I don’t blame her!!!! I wouldn’t want to watch that shit either!
Let me just say I am all about exploring all of your sexual fantasies with as many people as you want, just not your lover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It takes a really different person/couple to be able to have that kind of relationship. Those people love their sex drive more than they love their partner, and that is fine, its just that most of us think of our partner as territory, and no one likes trespassers! When I am in a relationship I am in it for the connection to the person and enduring that would make that connection weak. If my partner wanted to have a threesome I would have no problem with that, I just wouldn’t want to be there! Go right ahead and do what you do, just don’t involve me. Maybe it is because of my nature but it is just violating. And for those guys who always ask their girlfriend, come on lets just bring some random girl home, just think if it was the other way around. Girl says, come on lets just bring another guy home! Most men would never be okay with that so how is the girl supposed to? There is an exception to ever rule though, not all of you will agree with me on this and that is fine, you just may be that exception.
I could go on about this all day long but I will leave it at that. I am interested to know what you have to say on the subject. So sorry about the grammar Errors in the last post, I didn’t write it. I got issues no doubt, but not that bad. I just posted what was sent to me. any way, I hope you all have a great day… I am going to head to the gym and get my body in motion. Cant wait to hear your thoughts! Holla 
I love your view on things. Im in a relationship with my girl and I want a 3 some but I don’t want to fuck the other chick. I just want to see my girl hooking up with another girl while we get busy. What’s your take on that?
Hey Moma I agree 100% on that and you know this for a Fact …Well after throwing that Bitch out of the Limo for just crossing the Line with Our Mutual Super buddy at the Xbiz awards……Threesomes with those that don’t matter emotionally are one thing but threesomes with someone who have touched that inner space in our hearts and emotions are totally a No No for me…Playing is good as long as there is a Mutual Non Comitment on all parties, because when there is a coonection with at least two of them, SOmeone is gonns get hurt and pissed…So Yeah I am with you on that baby girl……
Love you, Lee Lee
As crazy as it sounds. The girl I’m trying to date asked me about that too. I told her the truth. I don’t know if I could do it right away since we haven’t been together yet. But we’ll can revisit it a little bit later if we get together. Maybe that’s what you need to do?
Men and women’s minds are very different though… I think sexuality for men is more a tick-box thing, whereas women have more of a sliding scale. That’s why so many women seem to be willing to try. So the internet says at least!
I agree with you. Unfortunately, I’ve never had a 3-some and the times I came close, someone always messed it up. But I would not want to share my girlfriend with another man or woman. Sure, the thought of having sex with 2 girls is the ultimate fantasy, but what if the girls are more into each other than they are into me? Sure, that would be good because I would like to watch, but I want to be a part of the action. Or what if my girlfriend moans differently, cums harder, screams something that she has never done before and I just witnessed someone else do that to her and not me. Even if I was happy that she had that experience and I was a part of the group where she got it, its not the same. Now, I’ve always been a fair person so I do believe that if she lets me, I must let her have a MMF if that is what she wants. And I would not be ok with watching another man fuck my girl.
But if you are just a random girl or a girl I’m friends with, by all means, bring it on with whoever you want.
I started dating this girl in college and found out she was into girls and had something going on with her roommate, who was also hot. I was patting myself on the back with excitement of what was to come. She then told me the best and worst thing ever. “I really like you, I can see this really going somewhere.” Then that followed up shortly after with “I could never share a guy I’m dating, the guys we had 3-somes with were just random guys. I care about you too much.” (Lucky me!)
There is 1 thing you didn’t mention though. If your boyfriend wants the 3-some and brings another girl home, the rule might be that he can’t touch and only you can. Or vice versa if it was a MMF
*CHRIS okay now see that is different. If we would have only done girl girl and he watched and then they fucked that would be one thing. I mean, I could see that working out a lot better. you should try it out and let me know how it goes
*LEE I love you baby girl. I miss you like crazy and I hope all is well in new york. looks like I will be in Jersey in march for the IVD warehouse show. I will let you know dates when I get them. well I am happy you had a good time here. I love you babe. talk to you soon.
*TRAVEN The funny thing is, this is not a problem I am having. My guy im sure wouldn’t mind one but he doesn’t bring it up and doesn’t pressure me about it. This is a problem a few of my girlfriends are having. The fact that we are in porn makes the guys we date think we live like that all the time. That everywhere we go were all fucking each other, and that is not the case at all. we are just as reserved and loyal to our partners and friends as any other girl would be.
*MATT yeah I hear ya. I understand the need to check things off of a sex check list, hell I did it too, but i did it before I got with someone I want to devote myself to. I didn’t allow myself to even be open to a relationship until I experienced everything at least once that was on my check list.
*WILL I like the way you think out side the box. Unfortunately as a female if my guy ever brought another girl home for any reason that would be his fantasy, not mine. now if I brought a girl home for him then that would be more of a present.
There is 1 other situation though. You have a 3-some, whether it be MFM, or FMF. Then time passes and you bump into 1 of the guys involved and that sparks into a relationship… or is that off limits now?
So Superman wasn’t around when you needed him that night?
From someone who has done multi 3-somes, I can say they are not as easy to plan as one may think. Too often, I’d want to play but it was hard to focus on both girls, pleasing them anyways. Last one I did was 4 years ago and it worked out well for me and them. Ive tried doning them since but it hasnt panned out for whatever reason. I guess thats a sign of not to do them. And to Charley, I applaud you for being hesitant in dong a 3-some w/your BF/GF and someone else, too many unsensitive moments/bad feelings may occur from them, esp like the case you mentioned w/her asking you to leave. It also shows you want to focus on your partner w/out outside parties involved, thus you care about him, which is why I love ya my friend. And youve seen a pic of my lady and know how fun that would be if we 3 ever did get silly together
*WILL that is way way off limits… that is like the worst outcome from the situation. I am not sure what you mean about superman not being around, but he is always around. On that particular night I was helping a girl friend celebrate her boyfriends birthday. when it was over I went back to superman for sure!
*GEOFF yeah threesomes are something best done with strangers or just fuck buddies. best left alone by people who really care about each other. It is messy and people get hurt… and I saw your lady baby! Ill take you two any day!
Hey there!
Now, not to argue, I’m just totally on the other side of things. If my wife would ever have sex without me being there, I would be mad as kriff and consider that as serious cheating. If we want a threesome or something else, I’m totally okay with that, as long as I’m involved. Hell, there are times when I don’t mind to just watch!
And it never caused us any problems at all. Sure, at first it was strange, but we figured we love each other, and sex can’t really change that. I know that if I would be jealous or fel uncomfortable, she would instantly stop and focus only on me. And no matter who she has sex with (with my knowledge), she always cuddles up on me afterwards.
But maybe as you said, Charley, maybe we are the exceptions
Cheers!
*INDY finally, some one on the other side. I am so happy you wrote in. I know that this whole threesome thing works and all, I am just not the kind of girl for it. Maybe after the newness of the relationship is over and we are totally board with our sex would I ever want to bring some one else in… is that how it went for you all?
Well, in our case, we didn’t do it out of boredom. I guess I’m so lucky that I found the girl who can put up with all my perverted fantasies
After the first few years (like, 2), after I realized we are 90% percent the same regarding the topic of sex, I figured I can tell her my hidden fantasies about threesomes and such… and she took it surprisingly well! At first she thought I just want to use this to break up with her, but after some serious conversations, she understood that I’m being completely honest.
Since then we built it into our sex life, when we both are really darn horny and are in the mood for it, we have no problem including another person in our activities
But at the same time, we do give each other the attention and respect we deserve, and make love and cuddle and be generally romantic on most days.
Don’t ask me how, but it works so far really well! I guess one just have to find the right partner!
Charley,
I have to say, the threesome scene you did with Gianna Michaels as cops, is one of my favorite porn scenes of all time.
*INDY well that is just awesome. Congrats babe!!! I love hearing stories like that! tell your wife I said… You go girl!
*CONNOR I remember that scene like it was yesterday!