PORN RELATIONSHIPS
This is a subject most of you fans wouldn’t rally know much about… In this porn world I live in, the community is really quite small.. I mean you have your feature companies you work for, the ganzo companies and the web companies…. all kinds of companies yet such a small small world. For example; I was on set today with my ex boyfriend that I dated about a year ago for about 6 months! The one guy in the industry I actually dated and of corse I now work with him all the time. Go figure…. But see there is one thing you have to understand about most porn relationships! They AREN’T REAL! Its so funny because I am a very compassionate girl and I tend to invest a lot of emotion and feeling into the things I do and the people I care about… now that brings me to my point because you see, Today I was naked in a room full of men I have fucked before > on top of a man I was about to fuck > all in front of my “EX” of 6 months and I felt nothing. I had to be reminded by a friend of mine that he and I actually had a thing… Im not saying I have forgotten dating him, I just don’t feel any emotional tie to him at all any more. Today he was jut another guy in the room as I was working. You would think that considering the situation I would feel just a little bit uncomfortable… but no I was just fine! It was this fact alone that made me realize how fake some porn relationships are… They tend to boil down to one thing, and one thing only… SEX! I have a good friend who is caught up in a pretty typical “porn love” situation and I must say I kinda enjoy watching the whole thing unfold like mine did. I figure teach is own so all i can do is sit back and be a friend.
True, most people in porn forget that relationships need to be well rounded. And sex is one part of many. Problem is many porn people have not much to offer except sex, hence why these relationships move fast and die faster. Good people are over looked for “hot” people. But that’s the nature of the beast, our industry is looks driven not character driven. And these relationships are epidemy of that mentality.
Charley: So what exactly does it feel like to be in a “not real” relationship? I’ve never been able to have sex with someone without getting caught up in her emotions… I can’t imagine how it would feel not to care.
That’s very interesting you didn’t have any feelings whatsoever. After a 6 month relationship and vesting emotionally with you ex. I know I would have some butterfly’s if that would happen to me. I guess its the industry you’re in and what goes on day in and day out. Hopefully within time, you’ll be able to find that person, if you’re currently seeking one out, that will happen to understand what you go through everyday and support you no matter what
hey its me donald again and i actully found the site on purpose and once again im probably late wit this comment, but screw it. the thing u hav to realize is that wether its inside the porn industry or out side of it, most guys are like that. im not sayn im like that, im a virgin, ive never actually been in a relationship, but anyway most guys are only lookn 2 hav a good time but there are also guys who are lookn 2 commit. u mite not realize it but there mite actually b some guys in the industry who want 2 commit, but wat do i knw i havent even came as close as holding a girls hand, but anyway i hope wat ever i said helps you in the long run, im donald boone
o yea and reason y u didnt feel anything towards him when u saw him is most likely because u didnt like him when u all were dating, just like him, u were probably lookn 2 to hav a good time 2 u just didnt realize it