WHEN THE GIRLFRIEND IS GONE
Im having this kinda weird problem lately…. For some reason guy friends of mine are all asking to hang out them when there girlfriends are out of town…. I am not sure how all of a sudden people think I am the “stand in” kind of girl, nut i am not. Now, I am always down to fuck any of these guys when it comes to work! In fact, a few of the guys I am referencing to are some of my favorites in the bizz, and if didn’t have girlfriends, I’d be all over….. But they do have girlfriends! I guess what I am trying to say is Im not the kind of girl that lets a guy have his cake and eat it too! Now if I were to hang out with them as a couple that would be one thing…. But to ask me to come stand in as your chick is not really cool for a few reasons… First: girlfriends are territorial… The last thing I need is some chick in the bizz pissed at me for fucking her man off camera! Thats just drama I don’t need…. Second: I have better things to be doing… As good as the sex is, I feel like my attention and lovin should be given to some one that doesn’t already have it, some one who deserves it…… well I dont know how you all feel about the situation but thats my expression.
*I’m on twitter @JayAllday by the way*
I think what draw men to you is not just that you are a pornstar and that you have sex for a living but also how you have sex in front of the camera. You come across as someone who really is into the scene and the guy/girl that you are having sex with. There is some emotion to your scenes coming from you which can leave many men twisted by you. And I think it’s in the way that you have sex that leave these guys believing that they can have sex with you off camera because you love the on camera sex so much. You have the catch-22 that many of your pornstar co-workers have. Wanting to have that serious relationship yet finding that special someone that will accept you and your profession. Maybe you need to slow down on the pursuit of relationship and let it come to you. You know that saying is true in that if you want something bad enough then the universe will conspire to help you. Stevie Wonder could see and hear the passion and love that you have to offer that special someone based on just this small blog. I have faith that moment will sneak up on you when you least expect it. Continue to believe in love and the power that it gives. xxooo
And for the record, you are the first pornstar that I’ve contacted on any level. Consider yourself de-flowering a virgin when it comes to responding to an adult film star so expect to hear from me. I just started to take twitter serious so expect to hear from me on twitter since I already follow you, obviously.
I’m very impressed Charley that you have morals when it comes to your personal life; and I hate it that people think you’re easy and will just fuck them because they’re in the bizz. Its hard enough for regular guys to try to date a very hot woman (in or out of the bizz) and they think they can have their cake & eat it too, Wow! I really don’t think their girlfriends would like that much either. I don’t think its truly a free-for-all for anybody & everybody in the bizz. I like a one-man type of woman in her personal life; and would not be jealous of her on screen sex with porn stars because I know you would come home to me. You can have fun on camera and still have passionate sex at home with a boyfriend! I’m available! lol
I cant say i am in much of a hurry to be in a relationship… I just dont wanna be a stand in for some one elses relationship thats all. and thank you for taking the time to give me ur thoughts…. You rock. kiss kiss
heehee thanks babe. I guess i am human after all!
I can’t blame them your very hot besides being in the bizz, hell If i was available I’d hit you up even if you weren’t in it. Don’t forget that your tons of fun besides most women and that is a huge turn on to guys too. I have dated a few boring assed women and girly girls they all sucked, girls with rockin personalities like yours are rare. I finally married one that is awesome and I wouldn’t trade her for the world. Don’t change a thing you rock.
thanks babe. you rock!
I think that is nice to know that you do have morals. as my boyfriend is apparently very obsessed with your movies… and your facebook page. Interesting to hear about you all the time and well, see some of your movies.. soooo i guess now i have a little more respect for you. Happy New Year
thanks love… that meaans a ot. happy new year to you! kiss kiss
well i can really understand men wanting you.who wouldn’t? however, i really admire you for having those limitations as far as those things are concerned and i respect you for that.have a nice day!